What is the book His Needs Her Needs about?
In this classic bestseller, Willard F. Harley, Jr., identifies the ten most vital needs of men and women and shows husbands and wives how to satisfy those needs in their spouse. He provides guidance for becoming irresistible to your spouse and for loving more creatively and sensitively.
When was his needs her needs written?
1950s
It reads like it was written in the 1950s.
Who wrote the book His Needs Her Needs?
Willard F. HarleyHis Needs, Her Needs / Author
What are 10 needs in his needs her needs?
Who is The Irresistible Woman?
- Sexual fulfillment. His wife meets this need by becoming a terrific sexual partner.
- Recreational companionship. She develops an interest in the recreational activities he likes most and tries to become proficient at them.
- Physical attractiveness.
- Domestic support.
- Admiration.
What is recreational companionship?
Recreational Companionship. Before you were married, chances are pretty good that you planned your dates around your favorite recreational activities. That’s because when it’s an important emotional need, recreational companionship can often deposit enough love units to trigger romantic love.
What is a love bank?
The concept of a LOVE BANK was first developed by Dr. William Harley in 1986. It is how you consciously or unconsciously keep track of how others treat you. Like a bank that holds our money, making more deposits than withdrawals are one way to ensure you have successful, healthy relationships.
What are emotional needs?
The Medical Dictionary defines emotional needs as “a psychological or mental requirement…that usually centers on such basic feelings as love, fear, anger, sorrow, anxiety, frustration, and depression and involves the understanding, empathy, and support of one person for another.”
What are the six major deposits to build an emotional bank account?
There are six major deposits we can make to the emotional bank account, and how these are relevant right now:
- Understanding the individual.
- Attending to the seemingly insignificant.
- Keeping commitments.
- Clarifying expectations.
- Showing personal integrity.
- Apologising sincerely when you make a withdrawal.
- Action point.
Why is love making important?
With love, trust and understanding come intimacy and sex. This extremely intimate act not only gives you and your partner intense pleasure but also help you sleep well, relieve stress and release happy endorphins within the body. And not to forget, burns a ton of calories!
What happens when your needs are not met?
When emotional needs are unmet, that emotional hunger can result in you feeling unwanted, alone, unfulfilled, lacking, overwhelmed, put away, and the list goes on. Those unmet emotional needs bring negative emotions into your life.